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Is all the PSLE stress and tuition arms race actually worth it looking back?

My daughter is now in JC and I'll tell you what I wish I knew at your stage, the PSLE score mattered far less than we panicked about, but the anxiety we transmitted to her lingered for years. We over-tuitioned her in P5 and P6, she scored well, but she also developed this fear of failing that took secondary school to unwind. Looking back the highest-value thing wasn't the third tuition class, it was the reading habit and the emotional stability we gave her at home. The kids who thrive long-term are the ones who stay curious and don't burn out at 12, so protect his love of learning above chasing the last few points.
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What are the hard truths of running a hawker stall that nobody tells you before you start?

I ran a noodle stall at a coffeeshop for three years before calling it quits, and the number one thing nobody tells you is the hou…

Need to sell HDB but haven't hit MOP, what happens?

If the issue is cashflow rather than needing to physically leave, look at renting out spare bedrooms, which IS allowed even before…

Confinement nanny worth the $3-4k? First-time parents deciding.

Get referrals for the nanny, quality varies wildly. A friend paid $4k for one who mostly watched TV and cooked bland food. We got …

Driving to JB for the weekend, is it worth the jam and VEP hassle vs taking the bus?

If you drive, make sure your car insurance covers Malaysia and carry a bit of cash for small stuff. Also fuel up in JB, it's far c…

What's it like being a stay-home dad in Singapore?

Did it for 18 months then went back to part-time. My honest experience, the identity hit was bigger than I expected. In Singapore …

BTO vs resale flat for a couple in our early 30s in a hurry to move out, which one did you regret less?

People forget the lease decay issue with resale. We almost bought a lovely flat in Queenstown until we realised it had only 62 yea…

CPF LIFE Standard vs Escalating plan, which payout option better for retirement at 65?

Don't overlook the Basic Plan in the comparison, though CPF Board defaults many to Standard now. Basic leaves more in your Retirem…

What are the hard lessons of starting a side hustle while holding a full-time job here?

Undercharging nearly killed my side business. I was so grateful for any customer that I priced too low and ended up working for ba…

Realistically, is Grab everywhere cheaper than owning a car in SG?

There's a middle ground people forget, car-sharing and short-term rentals. We Grab for daily stuff and book a shared car for the g…

Which telco plan is worth it in Singapore, SIM-only or contract with a phone?

Been on both, here's my practical verdict. Contract with phone made sense for me exactly once, when a launch promo made the effect…

Boss gave me a counteroffer after I resigned. Take it?

One practical thing nobody mentions, the new company already made an offer, prepped onboarding, maybe told their team. If you reje…

COE is insanely high now. Buy a car anyway or wait it out?

Consider a used car with a few years of COE left, or one where you rebid a shorter lease. You skip paying peak COE for a fresh 10 …

Is CPF OA to SA shielding still worth doing before 55?

Be careful, the rules changed. With the SA closure for members 55 and above, a lot of the old shielding advice on forums is outdat…

Side hustle selling on Shopee, do I need to register business and declare income to IRAS?

Also think about GST, though you're far from it now. You only need to register for GST if your business turnover exceeds 1 million…

BTO vs resale for a couple who wants to move in fast?

Don't forget resale grants got enhanced recently, first-timer couples can get up to a decent chunk off. Also look at the newer BTO…

Baby Bonus and CDA, is it worth topping up for our second kid?

Don't stretch to top up more than your family can comfortably afford, but absolutely DO top up right to the matching cap if you ca…

How to answer "expected salary" without lowballing myself?

Give a range where the low end is still a number you'd happily accept, because they will anchor to the low end. I made the mistake…

Is the DSA route into a good secondary school worth the stress, or should we just trust the PSLE? Parent experiences?

Watch out for the pressure-cooker effect on your child's wellbeing. I've seen parents drill their kids so hard for DSA interviews …

Is a big hotel wedding banquet worth it or should we do something smaller?

Whatever you pick, don't start married life in debt for one night. The flat and reno serve you for decades, the banquet is a few h…

What's it like servicing a 25-year HDB loan?

Five years in. Nobody warns you about the emotional side. Seeing 25 years on paper made me anxious like I'd never be free. But in …

BTO vs resale flat for a couple in our early 30s in a hurry to move out, which one did you regret less?

Honestly it depends on your risk appetite for uncertainty. With BTO you're gambling on the ballot queue number, we tried three tim…

Side hustle selling on Shopee, do I need to register business and declare income to IRAS?

On the tax part specifically: you're taxed on net profit, so keep every receipt, your cost of goods, Shopee seller fees, shipping,…