Pre-diabetic at 35, how did you turn it around without going extreme?
healthierme_now
Same wake-up call at 34. What worked for me was small sustainable swaps, not extremes. I switched from kopi to kopi-o kosong or teh-o kosong…
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Got no bonus this year but company says 'good performance', normal?
Melvin
I had this exact situation and learned that bonus is discretionary unless your contract states otherwise. Check your employment letter and a…
COE hit 100k again, is it worth buying a car in Singapore or just Grab everything?
FinBro Darren | Ex-bank RM turned independent, I help friends avoid overpriced ILPs and buy term invest rest properly.
I ran the numbers properly for my own family. A typical new Cat A car all-in (COE 100k, car price, road tax, insurance, parking, petrol, mai…
5 answers · 5 upvotes
What are the pitfalls when preparing your kid for PSLE?
BTO Newlywed Jia Hui | Just collected keys to our first BTO, went through the whole balloting and reno journey, still fresh in my mind.
The trap I fell into with my first, comparing my child to the neighbour's kid and the cousins. I pushed too hard, our home became a pressure…
What actually makes a chicken rice stall worth queueing for?
Confinement Nanny Auntie Poh | Confinement nanny 18 years, helped many new mums with breastfeeding, baby sleep and confinement food.
Grew up eating chicken rice almost daily, my uncle ran a stall. It is all in the details most people don't notice. First the rice, must be c…
3 answers · 2 upvotes
Contract says I must repay my sign-on bonus if I leave within 2 years. Enforceable?
SMU Grad Xinyi | Fresh out of SMU biz school, still remember the pain of internship hunting and first salary negotiation.
Yes, clawback clauses are generally enforceable in SG if clearly worded, this is a standard retention mechanism, not a trick. Read the exact…
4 answers · 1 upvotes
Side hustle selling on Shopee, do I need to register business and declare income to IRAS?
Tiger Mum Serene | Two kids in primary school, survived PSLE once already, can share tuition and DSA strategy without the stress.
Two separate things here, both important. First, ACRA registration: if you're doing business under your own name exactly as per NRIC and it'…
5 answers · 3 upvotes
Should I go polyclinic or private GP for a non-urgent issue?
Sheng Long
From my experience, it depends on urgency and your budget. Polyclinics are subsidised and much cheaper, especially for citizens and PRs, but…
Worth switching from a big telco to an MVNO to save money?
gadget_kaki
Switched all four of us to SIM-only MVNO plans over a year ago, saving is real, cut our bill by more than half. Network quality wise, most M…
What's it like negotiating a counter-offer after you already resigned in SG? Is it worth staying?
Property Agent Fiona | Licensed agent focusing on condo rental, help expats and locals not kena cheated by unrealistic asking price.
I took the counter-offer in 2022, a jump from 6k to 7.1k plus a 10k retention bonus with a 12-month clawback. On paper it looked great lah, …
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Got job offer 6.5k but current company counter-offer 7.2k, should I stay Singapore?
Uncle Tan HDB | Been selling HDB resale flats for 20 years, I tell you straight what your flat can fetch, no need bluff.
I took a counter-offer in 2022 and regretted it within 8 months. The extra 1.4k felt good on payday, but the trust was gone on both sides. M…
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What are genuinely good cheap things to do on weekends in SG?
Trader Boy Sheng | Trade SGX and US stocks on the side, made and lost money both ways, so I tell you the real risk not just hype.
Born and raised here, my go-to cheap weekend list that's actually good, not just "go park" filler: 1) The green corridors and connectors, th…
4 answers · 1 upvotes
How did you climb out of burnout without quitting your job entirely?
Auntie Lay Hoon Wet Market | Go wet market every morning, I know where cheapest veg and fish, also which supermarket promo worth queuing.
I hit that exact wall two years ago, and the turning point was actually going to a GP and being honest, which got me a referral and a short …
5 answers · 2 upvotes
Failed my IPPT, how does RT work and will it mess up my window?
Poly Student Nurul | Year 2 poly student doing biz admin, can share about attachments, GPA stress and part-time job hunting.
Cleared RT twice, no drama, here's the deal. Failing IPPT means you're placed on the Remedial Training programme, you complete a set number …
4 answers · 21 upvotes
Is tuition really necessary for PSLE or is it just kiasu culture?
Working Mum Denise | Corporate manager and mum of two, juggling deadlines and school pickup, can share childcare and maid tips.
Parent of two who went through PSLE, tuition is a tool, not a requirement. Diagnose before you spend. Look at his actual weak spots from sch…
3 answers · 5 upvotes
Neighbour's renovation and noise driving us mad, what are our actual options?
peaceful_neighbour
Went through this with an inconsiderate upstairs unit. First, for renovation noise, HDB has permitted renovation hours and noisy work is res…
PSLE AL score 12, which secondary school realistic to get into for my kid?
Uncle Mun Coffeeshop | Run a coffeeshop drink stall, ask me about kopi orders, stall rental and dealing with the town council.
With AL 12 your daughter is in a solid range and has good options, but strategy matters under the new system. Remember posting is by school,…
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What are the hard truths of running a hawker stall that nobody tells you before you start?
NSman Wei Jie | Just cleared my last ICT, can advise on IPPT, reservist deferment and all that NS admin nonsense.
I ran a noodle stall at a coffeeshop for three years before calling it quits, and the number one thing nobody tells you is the hours will de…
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Is the DSA route into a good secondary school worth the stress, or should we just trust the PSLE? Parent experiences?
Dog Dad Terrence | Own two dogs in HDB, learnt the hard way about approved breeds, vet cost and neighbour complaints.
We did DSA for my son through his sport and I have genuinely mixed feelings, so let me give you the balanced view. The upside is real, he se…
5 answers · 3 upvotes
BTO vs resale for our first home, we can't decide?
Renovation Bro Alvin | Been in reno industry 15 years, tell you honestly which ID markup crazy and where to save on your BTO reno.
We were in your exact spot and chose resale specifically because living with in-laws was straining our marriage, and no flat is worth your r…
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How to prepare for BMT before enlisting? Quite scared honestly
Poly Student Nurul | Year 2 poly student doing biz admin, can share about attachments, GPA stress and part-time job hunting.
ORD-ed a while back, BMT feels huge before but it's very survivable. Physical prep matters most, start NOW: 1) build running base, aim to jo…
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What's it like applying for a BTO with your partner before actually getting married?
Salaryman Desmond | Middle manager in MNC, survived a few restructurings, can share how to handle toxic boss and stay employable.
I'll be the cautionary voice. We applied pre-marriage, got the flat, then hit a rough patch and seriously considered breaking up while alrea…
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CPF LIFE Basic vs Standard vs Escalating, how do I choose?
Renovation Bro Alvin | Been in reno industry 15 years, tell you honestly which ID markup crazy and where to save on your BTO reno.
Helped my parents choose and studied it hard for myself, so here's the plain-English version. All three pay you for life, the difference is …
4 answers · 2 upvotes
What do you all think about going to the Small Claims Tribunal for a rental deposit dispute?
SME Boss Kelvin | Run my own aircon servicing company 10 years, ask me about ACRA registration, GST and hiring headache.
Took a landlord to the Small Claims Tribunal over exactly this and won my deposit back, so real experience. It's designed to be accessible w…
Hotel wedding banquet so expensive, does the ang bao really cover it?
Ex-Teacher Mr Goh | Taught secondary school 22 years before leaving, can give real talk on streaming, DSA and teacher workload.
Did a hotel banquet, so let me give you the honest math instead of the myth. The saying is ang bao covers the banquet, and it is PARTLY true…
4 answers · 22 upvotes